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What's one thing you think every mom secretly wants but never asks for?
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As far as I am concerned, a mother is quietly seeking a sense of reward because she has given you so much—love, the grace of raising you, and more.

The reason she doesn't say it out loud is that she doesn't want to make you feel burdened.

This reflects the old Chinese saying: 'Give without expecting anything in return.'

Answered: May 13

I think deep down, every mom wants to feel truly seen—not just for what she does, but for who she is. She might never say it, but she hopes someone notices her tired hands after cooking, her quiet sacrifices, or the dreams she paused for her family.

A simple "I see how hard you work" or a day where she doesn't have to "be strong" could mean more than any gift. It's not about grand acts; it's about saying, "You matter too." 💕

Answered: May 11

I think every mom secretly wishes for a whole day of uninterrupted relaxation.

She's always busy taking care of the family, managing chores, and juggling countless tasks.

What she truly craves is a day to sleep in, read a book without interruptions, soak in a long bath, or simply do nothing at all. It's not about being lazy — it's about recharging her mental and physical energy.

But she rarely asks for it, always putting others' needs before her own.6821b037e4b08b4fca15c26c.jpg


Answered: May 12

I think maybe is the chance to be herself again. 

Answered: May 11

I need to ask my mom.

Answered: May 13

Every mom secretly wishes for an 'invisibility pass' — the right to disappear completely for 24 hours, hide in a hotel bathtub eating instant noodles and binge-watching shows.

Answered: May 15

From my perspective, what my mom never asks for but secretly wants is for me to express my love to her directly.

One time, I sent her an email saying "Love you," and she replied, "Love you too." It felt a bit strange to me — and I think it probably felt the same for her, haha.

Answered: May 14

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Winston Yi

As far as I am concerned, a mother is quietly seeking a sense of reward because she has given you so much—love, the grace of raising you, and more.

The reason she doesn't say it out loud is that she doesn't want to make you feel burdened.

This reflects the old Chinese saying: 'Give without expecting anything in return.'

Answered: May 13

辣辣还是娜娜呀

I think deep down, every mom wants to feel truly seen—not just for what she does, but for who she is. She might never say it, but she hopes someone notices her tired hands after cooking, her quiet sacrifices, or the dreams she paused for her family.

A simple "I see how hard you work" or a day where she doesn't have to "be strong" could mean more than any gift. It's not about grand acts; it's about saying, "You matter too." 💕

Answered: May 11

Jason

I think every mom secretly wishes for a whole day of uninterrupted relaxation.

She's always busy taking care of the family, managing chores, and juggling countless tasks.

What she truly craves is a day to sleep in, read a book without interruptions, soak in a long bath, or simply do nothing at all. It's not about being lazy — it's about recharging her mental and physical energy.

But she rarely asks for it, always putting others' needs before her own.6821b037e4b08b4fca15c26c.jpg


Answered: May 12

藍糖

I think maybe is the chance to be herself again. 

Answered: May 11

Sam

I need to ask my mom.

Answered: May 13