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As we can see, the education ministry strengthens the importance of boys’ sufficient masculinity with the measures raising the weighting of PE class in the "double reduction" policy. Many hold that not being manly enough is a problem, and even a mental health problem. But I think those "wimp guys" should not be stigmatized.

Consider this scenario: when a robber suddenly appears on the street, a strong man slips away while a "wimp boy" steps out to confront the robber. Who do you think is more of a man?

First and foremost, manly or not is often not a personal choice (let alone be deemed as a mental health problem by some people). Nevertheless, those boys often suffer disparaging remarks and tricks, for example, being stumbled upon by manly boys in school. That is not fair because the characteristics are often innate, partly by nurture and partly by nature, which means they cannot decide how they should act in many cases.

Secondly, the mockery of them is commonly dismissed by the teachers, inducing them to be more vulnerable to ridicule. In effect, this ignorance and stigmatization are just discrimination towards those minority groups, revealing a society lacking tolerance.

To summarize, what we lack is not more manly boys but an understanding environment towards them and common sense for a perspective on the good nature of humans. If a man featuring muscle and masculinity is devoid of strong qualities, he will be laughed at as well. The becoming looks we insist on in men today may merely be regarded as labels that are out of date tomorrow.

It is not important whether a man is manly or not; what matters is the nature within him.

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How to lose weight safely for an obesity?

Now there is an increasing awareness of the necessity of losing weight safely and permanently to many people. However, when we search for ways to lose weight on the internet, there are so many advertisements, particularly those belonging to companies that sell diet drugs or other weight-loss products, which promote misinformation about losing weight. In my opinion, people looking to lose weight safely should focus on changing their lifestyles permanently rather than adopting temporary measures. 

For instance, trying to eat less sugar and prepackaged snacks can be an effective way to lose weight. Much of the sugar people consume comes from fructose, which the liver breaks down and turns into fat. After the liver turns sugar into fat, it releases these fat into the blood, which can lead to weight gain. On the other hand, snacks are not always easy to avoid, but choosing some healthful snacks is also a positive step to take. Also, healthful snacks can also help people meet their daily nutritional needs and avoid excess salt and sugar. 

Moreover, many people do not exercise regularly and may also have sedentary jobs. It is very important to do cardiovascular exercise, such as running or walking, and resistance training in a regular exercise program. The cardiovascular exercise can help the body burn calories quickly, and the resistance training builds lean muscle mass. The muscle mass can help people burn more calories at rest. 

It is vital for people to focus on making changes that they can maintain. However, anyone who finds it challenging to lose weight may benefit from speaking to a doctor to dietitian to find a plan that works for them.

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First, you should evaluate your interests, as they will play a key role in your profession choice. Then, on the left, draw a circle 1 and write down your thoughts in it. 

Second, in a circle 2 on the right, put down what you are good at, which is something that not everyone else can accomplish and that you excel at. 

Next, you must determine what type of labor is required in the market and whether or not you are capable of performing it. In circle 3, make a list of them. 

The final stage is to try to discover a common point between the three circles. And perhaps it is the right job for you.

But if you cannot find your hobby or what you do best, try to reverse the operation: write about what you don’t like, don’t want to do, or the market doesn’t need outside these circles. You can reason backwards about what kind of job you are fit for.

Besides from that, and personally, when I graduated, I had no idea what I wanted to do, so I tried for a while, so here's a tip to assist you figure out if the position is right for you: 

It's simply to consider who you'll be serving, what they'll need, and whether you have the talents to help, as well as the situation in which you'll be serving your customer (for example, the working hours are 996, at night, or even at weekends). Those visual imagines can be helpful, or you can seek guidance from someone who is actually employed in that profession. 

I wish you luck in your career search. ( However, because most occupations are not easy, the first circle's interest is still more vital. Hahaha

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