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What should I do if I can not accept myself?
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First you should know why you can't accept yourself. then you need to find methods to improve what you are  dissatisfied with. And then you'd better make a plan and schedule. You should try your best to complete the schedule. Don't overly focus on the results, enjoy the process of struggle.

Oct 12, 2020, 17:45

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I'm sure that you should see a doctor. There must be some mental problems in your thoughts, it's very difficult to change by yourself, you need to be helped by a professional doctor.

Oct 14, 2020, 06:34

We all have to admit that we're not perfect, and if we don't, we're stuck in a cycle of anxiety, which is the worst thing we can do to improve our mood. The courage to face up to their own shortcomings, is a person to correct their shortcomings, the beginning of maturity.

When a person knows how to admit that he is not perfect, he is not far from the real perfect. We are often blamed for not knowing our weaknesses, but more often than not, we don't know our strengths.

People are like a piece of land, sometimes they do not know that there is also a hidden gold mine. In fact, everyone is a treasure house, which contains an infinite number of resources.

The key to the treasure house is not parents, not schools, not society, but ourselves. So, in order to succeed, we must first see ourselves.

Oct 12, 2020, 23:23

You should face the mirror to say I can everyday, and you must believe that the world is wonderful and everything will be better. Don't worry, we all they're behind you. 

Oct 12, 2020, 17:42

Change yourself, change the world.

Oct 15, 2020, 08:51

Take it easy. I always felt depressed before until I met my boyfriend who gives me courage and confidence everyday! He is so optimistic so that I have been effected day by day. Now, I am more confident than before! 

Maybe you need a special guy to help you open your hurt and take you out of the dark!


Oct 19, 2020, 08:01

First, you have know you are not good enough, then you should square on time to improve yourself.

Oct 14, 2020, 08:17

Be better.

Oct 13, 2020, 21:32

Be back yourself! 

Oct 13, 2020, 19:29

Try your best to improve yourself.

Oct 13, 2020, 16:03

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